I know that this is going to sound really cliche but why not look at the glass as half full rather than half empty. I actually do tend to look at life like this and I feel like I am much happier because of it. This does not mean that things always go my way or that I do not get disappointed at times but I just prefer to be happy or positive until those things happen. I see it this way whatever is going to happen is going to happen anyway, how I choose to react before that is up to me. Now don’t get me wrong, I am very realistic if I already know what the end result will be I won’t pretend that’s it’s going to be something else but if I don’t know I will lean to the positive.
I’ve also made up my mind a while ago that I would not worry or stress over things that I have no control over. Once something is out of my hand I just wait for the results, and if it goes my way great but if not I just move on.
You have the have the ability to choose whether to be positive or negative, and positive makes me feel better so that’s what I choose.